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Whatever your cross, whatever your pain,there will always be sunshine,after the rain .... Perhaps you may stumble,perhaps even fall,But God's always ready,To answer your call ... He knows every heartache,sees every tear,A word from His lips,can calm every fear ...

Your sorrows may linger,throughout the night,But suddenly vanish,in dawn's early light ... The Savior is waiting,somewhere above,To give you His grace,and send you His love... Whatever your cross,whatever your pain,"God always sends rainbows ....after the rain ... "

To get out of difficulty, one must usually go through it!

Let's always trust that everything that happens in our lives, be it good or bad, has a purpose. Allow God to use the circumstances in your life and mould you into the best person you can be. Remember that He is just beside you, watching and caring.

a beautiful morning....

"I wake up again because the LORD continues to support me." (Psalm 3:5)
"In the morning I lay my needs in front of You and I wait." (Psalm 5:3)

This is a beautiful Friday morning! I love rainy day!
And the most important thing is, I spent the most precious morning with my LORD!

I read and listen to His words. I pray in my own language. I pray for those things I need daily, such as food, safety, health, wisdom, wealth, ..... etc... etc. In the mean time, I pray with my soul in tongue language. I pray for something I don't know. Something my soul, my spirit wants.

We always accentuate what our body needs physically, but neglected what our souls need.
Pray, not only for the body, but the soul deep down inside! Our body needs to be feed, so does our soul!

Lets get every morning started with Godliness!!

a love story.....

Daniel: I guess we are the left overs in this world.

Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.

Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.

Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.

Daniel: What game?

jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.

Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..

DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.

DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.

DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared

and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..

DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.

DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something.

DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.

DAY 29:
11:37 pm
Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game...

Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..

Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.

Daniel: Wait for me...

20 minutes later... a stranger approched Jasmine.

Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?

Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?

Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital.

11:57pm
The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.

Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.

Jasmine read the letter which says:

Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...

Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..

"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me

Then the clock strikes 12

Daniel's heart stop pumping

THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...

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Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...

sometimes love just ain't enough

There's something you couldn't change, no matter how hard you tried! Don't blame... Take it, or walk away...
I know I could never change you. There's a danger in loving somebody too much.......
I think memories are the most wonderful thing in life! I'll keep you in my mind forever, Mr. Rabbit.........

::: 幾米 :::

一樣的眼睛有不一樣的看法。　　
一樣的耳朵有不一樣的聽法。　　
一樣的嘴巴有不一樣的說法。　　
一樣的心有不一樣的想法。　　
是不是因為這樣，一樣的人生才有不一樣的哀愁。




《布瓜的世界》
我努力的抓緊世界，最后卻仍被世界淘汰，　　
如果一開始就松手，我會不那么傷心嗎？　　
你說，親愛的孩子，世事難料，隨它去吧！







《向左走向又走》
They're both convinced that a sudden passion joined them. Such certainth is beautiful, but uncertainty is more beautiful still.
--Wislawa Szymborska "Love at First Sight"

他們彼此深信，是瞬間迸發的熱情讓他們相遇。
這樣的確定是美麗的，但變幻無常更為美麗。　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　
－－摘譯自辛波絲卡第一段







《月亮忘記了》
生命中，不斷有人離開或進入。
于是, 看見的, 看不見了﹔　
記住的, 遺忘了。

生命中，不斷的有得到和失落。
于是，看不見的，看見了﹔　　
遺忘的，記住了。
　　
然而，看不見的，是不是就等于不存在？　　
記住的，是不是永遠不會消失？

Mr./Ms. Right

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，
就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。

諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，
約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，
如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出
相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，
但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，
直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情，
才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」， 是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」 就要靠「努力」，
在愛情的經營中， 順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。 有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散， 而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。

所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right / Miss Right， 而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、成長到什麼程度，
若沒有培養出經營幸福的能力， 就算真的 Mr / Miss Right出現在你身邊， 幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中， 這不就是許多愛情虛無症的遭遇與心態嗎？ 若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶， 不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，
　
我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，
就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律
邊際效益遞減法則」，　
跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
　
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
　
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
　
所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，
應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，
同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，
因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，
所以要知福惜福、活在當下。