I love my family

Thanks God for giving me such a wonderful family! I love my husband, and i love my baby! They are the my precious!!
I'm so lucky to have Nick as my husband, and thanks for being with me no matter happy or sadness. Thanks for all the trust and full support. Without you, my life woudn't be so perfect! With the newly baby, she boost up everything, and make us a complete family! With the love of Jesus Christ, we love and appreciate each other. Loves never come to an end! :)

beautiful life

I never know that life can be so perfect. It is full of loves, full of blessing....
God has make the right choice for me. There's no more confused, no more untrusted,...etc. Undeniable He is the Almighty and in control of everything!

I appreciate whatever He did for me, and i continue to follow His rules. I will continue to love people, love my life, love my family, love my spouse,.....

Thank God for the most precious gift which is coming up soon. :D
I pray for her to love Jesus more than anything else in the world!!

Thanks giving

I thank God for everything... everything single thing!! I continue to listen and obey.

L.I.F.E.

Life is uncontrollable, hard to comprehend and even harder to manage, for we are not the almighty creater.

I'm the stick-to-the-rule kinda person... believe it or not. ;p If there's only one step forward and the whole life would be different, will you dare to try??? Will you jump??? Of course we can't figure out how good or how bad it will be in the future. Will you take the challenge???

I am just an ordinary person. I obey to the rules, and i afraid of changes! I can only stick to the original plan, keep walking and no turning back!! :(

This is what we called 'LIFE'!!!! Sighhhhhhh.......................

Thank God

Thank you my Lord. Thanks for everything. I believe in You, I listen, and I obey! I know there'll be blessing, a big one!! I'm thankful!

God's willpower

my Lord, please tell me that this is the right choice. This is your will, not mine. It must be the most accurate one.
The tears mystify me, that's why i couldn't see the blessing?? Please clear my eyes, cleanse my mind. Fill me up with your wisdom, so that i can see and think wisely.

LUKE 20:29-35

Now there were seven brothers. And the first took a wife, and died without children.

And the second took her as wife, and he died childless.

Then the third took her, and in like manner the seven also; and they left no children, and died.

Last of all the woman died also.

Therefore, in the resurrection, whose wife does she become? For all seven had her as wife.

Jesus answered and said to them, "The sons of this age marry and are given marriage.
But those who are counted worthy to attain that age, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry nor are given in marriage."

soRRy....

I know how you feel, i Really do!
I'm sad when u deleted me fRom youR 'fRiendsteR' and 'facebook'.
I'm so envy that you've got hundRed of gfsss theRe! Even though you don't know them, I still feel veRy veRy sad, and that's killing me!
So, ... I know exactly how you feel!! And, I feel soooooo soRRy to you!!
I know soRRies no cure. But i Really don't know whatelse i can do!

too late..! ..?...?

When i see you, i feel veRy sad. That's why I don't go to 6th flooR now, and i seldom stay in the office now. I don't wanna see the sadness on youR face.
I don't know what to say to you. I don't know if i should say hi to you as usual. I'm sad when you tReat me like a stranger now. It makes me real SAD!!! I wish i can sit down with you, talk to you like usual. I wish to buy you tidbit, but i afraid you won't like it anymore.

It has been a habit to see whether your car is there when i'm in the carpark; Maybe you didn't realise that sometimes i park my car in front of yours (when the parking is available).
It has been a habit to see if your office's light is on everytime when i pass by. Which mean you're around. I wish i could bump into you at the corridor. Believe it or not, I even recognise your footstep.

I went to your office this afternoon, i wonder if you hear my voice? And this evening i went to 6th floor again, i wish i could see you there. But you weren't there.....

You asked me how do i know where your house is? Indeed I cruised around many many times, but i couldn't find it. It was too dark during night time; and your car wasn't there during day time.
Finally, i found it! You were away to China. I saw your car parking there. I was extremely happy!! That's how i know your house, .... and that night when i asked you to come out, i was waiting outside.

I don't work late. I stayed until 6pm because i was waiting for you. I went to the nearest place for 'happy hour' because i wish you would come join me after work.

I love you with long hair, either no hair. I don't really mind.
I don't mind if you only got 5 bucks in your pocket. I don't mind to tell the whole world that i love you!! I really don't mind! (Maybe you do, that's why i never mentioned your name here).

.... I'm sorry to say all this, when everything seems to be tooooo late now! To you, it is meaningless now......

you'Re always on my mind

I appreciate every single thing you did for me. The maggi mee is the bestEst food i never ever had before! I still keep the 5 bucks you gave me.
I remember every single word you said, your expressions, your laughter,... everything!! Many many things come up to my mind.... You're so special to me.

I know i might be wrong, i shouldn't have judge you the way i think you are. But I really tried very hard to understand you. It is too late to say this now. I will keep you in my mind. This is all i can do...........

foR you to Read

You didn't read my blog; you misunderstand me; you don't know how i feel. You continue to scold me, put all the blames on me!
I never ever meant to hurt you. I didn't know it would hurt you. I wouldn't do it if i knew it. I feel worst when you're hurt.
I don't understand you because you never tell, never show. I am just too stupid, and i'm not being patient enough.
I don't deserve your love because you're too good. I never expect anything from you. I don't dare to move a step forward because i'm scared! I afraid i would fall into you deeper and deeper. And, I'm so worry that one day i would lost you.
Please forgive me for being so stupid, and i'm not able to make things different now.

when love comes to an end....???

If you really love someone, you wouldn't have hurt her again and again and again without any reasons! If you do love her, you wouldn't keep her waiting and waiting and waiting for nothing without any reasons!!

Please respect whatever her decision is. Bless but not curse, neither hates....! She didn't mean to hurt you, and she feel saddest when you're hurt. Please take care and live happily. May God bless you!!! :)

... + cross + ...

Whatever your cross, whatever your pain,there will always be sunshine,after the rain .... Perhaps you may stumble,perhaps even fall,But God's always ready,To answer your call ... He knows every heartache,sees every tear,A word from His lips,can calm every fear ...

Your sorrows may linger,throughout the night,But suddenly vanish,in dawn's early light ... The Savior is waiting,somewhere above,To give you His grace,and send you His love... Whatever your cross,whatever your pain,"God always sends rainbows ....after the rain ... "

To get out of difficulty, one must usually go through it!

Let's always trust that everything that happens in our lives, be it good or bad, has a purpose. Allow God to use the circumstances in your life and mould you into the best person you can be. Remember that He is just beside you, watching and caring.

a beautiful morning....

"I wake up again because the LORD continues to support me." (Psalm 3:5)
"In the morning I lay my needs in front of You and I wait." (Psalm 5:3)

This is a beautiful Friday morning! I love rainy day!
And the most important thing is, I spent the most precious morning with my LORD!

I read and listen to His words. I pray in my own language. I pray for those things I need daily, such as food, safety, health, wisdom, wealth, ..... etc... etc. In the mean time, I pray with my soul in tongue language. I pray for something I don't know. Something my soul, my spirit wants.

We always accentuate what our body needs physically, but neglected what our souls need.
Pray, not only for the body, but the soul deep down inside! Our body needs to be feed, so does our soul!

Lets get every morning started with Godliness!!

a love story.....

Daniel: I guess we are the left overs in this world.

Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.

Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.

Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.

Daniel: What game?

jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.

Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..

DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.

DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.

DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared

and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..

DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.

DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something.

DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.

DAY 29:
11:37 pm
Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game...

Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..

Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.

Daniel: Wait for me...

20 minutes later... a stranger approched Jasmine.

Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?

Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?

Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital.

11:57pm
The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.

Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.

Jasmine read the letter which says:

Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...

Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..

"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me

Then the clock strikes 12

Daniel's heart stop pumping

THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...

**************************************************************************

Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...

sometimes love just ain't enough

There's something you couldn't change, no matter how hard you tried! Don't blame... Take it, or walk away...
I know I could never change you. There's a danger in loving somebody too much.......
I think memories are the most wonderful thing in life! I'll keep you in my mind forever, Mr. Rabbit.........

::: 幾米 :::

一樣的眼睛有不一樣的看法。　　
一樣的耳朵有不一樣的聽法。　　
一樣的嘴巴有不一樣的說法。　　
一樣的心有不一樣的想法。　　
是不是因為這樣，一樣的人生才有不一樣的哀愁。




《布瓜的世界》
我努力的抓緊世界，最后卻仍被世界淘汰，　　
如果一開始就松手，我會不那么傷心嗎？　　
你說，親愛的孩子，世事難料，隨它去吧！







《向左走向又走》
They're both convinced that a sudden passion joined them. Such certainth is beautiful, but uncertainty is more beautiful still.
--Wislawa Szymborska "Love at First Sight"

他們彼此深信，是瞬間迸發的熱情讓他們相遇。
這樣的確定是美麗的，但變幻無常更為美麗。　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　
－－摘譯自辛波絲卡第一段







《月亮忘記了》
生命中，不斷有人離開或進入。
于是, 看見的, 看不見了﹔　
記住的, 遺忘了。

生命中，不斷的有得到和失落。
于是，看不見的，看見了﹔　　
遺忘的，記住了。
　　
然而，看不見的，是不是就等于不存在？　　
記住的，是不是永遠不會消失？

Mr./Ms. Right

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，
就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。

諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，
約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，
如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出
相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，
但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，
直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情，
才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」， 是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」 就要靠「努力」，
在愛情的經營中， 順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。 有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散， 而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。

所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right / Miss Right， 而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、成長到什麼程度，
若沒有培養出經營幸福的能力， 就算真的 Mr / Miss Right出現在你身邊， 幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中， 這不就是許多愛情虛無症的遭遇與心態嗎？ 若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶， 不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，
　
我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，
就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律
邊際效益遞減法則」，　
跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
　
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
　
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
　
所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，
應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，
同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，
因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，
所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

Q&A

A friend of mine said, “There is a good thing to be a Christian. You can always ask for forgiveness when you did wrong. Which means you can keep doing thing wrong, then you confess, and God will forgive you!”
The God is mercy, no doubt. When we confess our sins with sincerity, He forgives. We confess 100 times, He forgives 100 times!! The fact is when we confess to God, we open our mouth and pray to Him. When we started the first conversation with God, He listens and there the miracles begin. He has a plan on every one of us.
In our prayer we talk to Him, and we listen, we obey His rules. Day-after-day, we live a Christian life! There’s no forever sin as if you confess to God. Give yourselves a chance; give our Lord a chance to create a miracle on you!

And he asked, ‘How do you know your happiness and blessing are from your God, but not ‘others’? I pray for you in the temple too.’
Well, if you love me, please pray for me to my Lord. Everything is from Him, not ‘others’. I know where I came from, and I know my final destination. I know my Heavenly father, and He is the only God.

My friends, I pray for you all everyday. I’d like to share the eternal life with you all!
My dear Jeff, it doesn’t matter whether you are the first 3, or the last 3; You are in the list! I pray for u everyday as I promised to you. If you afraid you’ll be lonely in the hell, why don’t you join me in the heaven one day, instead of bringing me to the hell? Heheheh ;p

MAY GOD BLESS YOU…. :)

Lutheran... converted to Methodist

Today I'm converting to Methodist at Shern En Church. I was formally from Lutheran Church. Anyhow, i still serve the same Lord! :)

Here's the history about Lutheran & Methodist :-

Lutheranism is a major branch of Protestant Christianity which follows the teachings of the sixteenth-century German reformer Martin Luther. Luther's efforts to reform the theology and practice of the Church launched the Protestant Reformation and, though it was not his intention, left Western Christianity divided.
The split between Lutherans and the Roman Catholic Church arose mainly over the doctrine of justification before God. Specifically, Lutheranism advocates a doctrine of justification "by grace alone through faith alone because of Christ alone," distinct from the Roman Catholic view. Lutheran theology differs considerably from Reformed theology in its understanding of divine grace and predestination to eternity after death.

The first Methodist clergy were ordained by John Wesley, a minister in the Church of England, because of the crisis caused by the American Revolution which cut the Methodists in the States off from the Church of England and its sacraments. The Methodist church has allowed ordination of women with full rights since 1956, the first mainstream Christian denomination to do so.

::: my holiday :::

Getting real sick after my holiday in KL. :( Party too much!! Hehehe... Anyway, was great to meet up some old friends, and got to know some new friends there. Was having fun there. Hope to see you guys again realllllll soon!!!! Miss ya~~~~

The right one, the right timing.

Thing isn't that complicated indeed. Be open minded, and bring it up for discussion. With the lead of God, we talked. I was surprised, anyhow glad that he understand how I feel and what i think. Thanks for being so understanding. It was all my fault.
I still need a little bit more time. It's hard to forget someone, but i'm trying.
Hmm.... in fact I have a feeling that maybe you are the right one from God. Maybe we just have to wait for the perfect timing. Well, i say maybe... hehehe....

Anger management

I'm not a Saint. I have my temper, and sometimes it was really really bad one!! I am trying hard to be good,... or best if i can.
There's something i can't tolerate. There's a limit for everything. I understand love is no boundaries, it isn't irritable. I am not asking for any returns. But please at least appreciate what i did for you.....
It was really sad when someone cannot understand you, yet didn't even give a shit. Sigh...
There is a time to be angry. This anger, however, needs to be expressed in love, and without sin (Eph. 4:26).
I am not hypocritical. I'm just trying to be nice, and trying to control my anger.
I don't blame you anymore. I hope you like the choc cheese. And, i will buy the choc banana next time.... hehe. ;p

::: Tithing :::

" Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house, and test me now in this,” says Yahweh of Armies, “if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough for. " (Malachi 3:10)

This is what i always heard in the church. Surrender 10% of our income to the Lord through His church. It is one of our (christian) duties. Do it with the joyful heart. It doesn't matter whether it is 'gross tithe' or 'net tithe'. Just do it!!

For the God so love us, that even sacrified His only son - Jesus Christ to die for our sins. What is the 10% compare to God's love?? It is just a tiny little potato. You are paying 10% service tax at Coffee Bean, Starbucks,.... aren't you?? Hehe... ;p

God is giving us His great blessing. I believe the 'fruits' from the Lord taste much much more better than the vanilla ice-blended. Hehehe... ;p

Remember, do it with joy! God bless!!

Pray for the korean hostages

Please pray for the 23 Korean christian hostages being held in Afghanistan. Two of them has been killed. The group warned it would murder further captives unless its demands are met. May God be with them in the horror of the darkness.

"Lo, a horror of great darkness fell upon him" (Gen. 15:12).
When some terrible sorrow which seems so hard to reconcile with perfect love, crushes down upon the soul, wringing from it all its peaceful rest in the pitifulness of God, and launching it on a sea unlit by a ray of hope;
when unkindness, and cruelty maltreat the trusting heart, till it begins to doubt whether there be a God overhead who can see and still permit--these know something of the "horror of great darkness."
It is thus that human life is made up; rightness and gloom; shadow and sun; long tracks of cloud, succeeded by brilliant glints of light, and amid all Divine justice is working out its own schemes, affecting others equally with the individual soul which seems the subject of special discipline.

Who are filled with the horror of great darkness because of God's dealings with mankind, learn to trust that infallible wisdom, which is co-assessor with immutable justice; and know that He who passed through the horror of the darkness of Calvary, with the cry of forsakenness, is ready to bear you company through the valley of the shadow of death till you see the sun shining upon its further side.

The disciples thought that that angry sea separated them from Jesus. Nay, some of them thought worse than that; they thought that the trouble that had come upon them was a sign that Jesus had forgotten all about them, and did not care for them.
Oh, dear friend, that is when troubles have a sting, when the devil whispers, "God has forgotten you; God has forsaken you"; when your unbelieving heart cries as Gideon cried, "If the Lord be with us, why then is all this befallen us?" The evil has come upon you to bring the Lord nearer to you. The evil has not come upon you to separate you from Jesus, but to make you cling to Him more faithfully, more tenaciously, more simply. --F. S. Webster, M.A.

Never should we so abandon ourselves to God as when He seems to have abandoned us.

God knows....

Faith, Hope, Love.
Love always come first.
Bible puts such an emphasis on Loves :: God's love, parents' love, brother and sisterly love, husband-and-wife's love;
Love the children, and love our neighbours, and even our enemies.... just like God loves us!
Did the bible ever mention about couples (bf and gf)???? I couldn't find any phrases about this kind of relationship. Why? Why??? It doesn't mean a thing to God???? God knows..... :)

Streams in the Desert - July 28

Every hard duty that lies in your path, that you would rather not do, that it will cost you pain and struggle or sore effort to do, has a blessing in it. Not to do it, at whatever cost, is to miss the blessing.

Every hard piece of road on which you see the Master's shoe-prints and along which He bids you follow Him, surely leads to blessing, which you cannot get if you cannot go over the steep, thorny path.

Every point of battle to which you come, where you must draw your sword and fight the enemy, has a possible victory which will prove a rich blessing to your life. Every heavy load that you are called to lift hides in itself some strange secret of strength. --J. R. Miller

Waiting.....

I am waiting...... Love is no boundaries..... I am still waiting....
I hope you know what am i waiting for....................
This is the very very last chance, i tell myself...

...never ending.....

Again.... begining or ending??? Or never ending story??? I really am tired of this........
I hate guessing; I hate playing games; And I don't gamble!! Sigh....
I shouldn't have thinking too much. I've got no answer for everything! No answer.....! I don't know what's in your mind. It is not up to me to make decision. It's not as simple as you think! And be fair to others....
It is very difficult to reconcile God's perfect love with His perfect timing. Be patient......
My Lord, please make me one of those rarest of souls who willingly wait for thy time!!

::: When we think we are too tired to go on, Jesus says, "I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28)
::: When we think no one cares, Jesus says He loves us (Jn 15:12-13)
::: When we need forgiveness, God says He will forgive us if we confess our sins (1 Jn 1:9)
::: God is our heavenly Father, who wants us to come to Him with our requests. He wants us to listen to Him speak through His Word. He has an answer for everything.

++ My God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:19) ++

... To be continue....

I'm very tired now.... very sleepy indeed. But i couldn't sleep...
Today, I'm very happy... very very happy! That was why I keep laughing in front of you just now.
I miss you.... miss you... and miss you... and miss you again.... :)
I hope this never gonna end..... Somehow, I am worry.... I afraid this could mean good bye....
I'm so confused......

::: AQUARIUS WOMAN :::

If you are in love with a woman in this zodiac be prepared to be very happy or be very sorry. She is a very busy person with her own matters similar to a guy in this zodiac. She is able to live by herself without any guy in her life, a very strong person indeed. Not because she does not have a dream guy, but if she can not find such person, so what. Because she thinks she could do anything that a man can do.
She is a leader , a real confident type. She likes to do things by herself, such as serving herself, opening the door herself. Because she thinks waiting for a helping hand is a waste of time, and she is not patient enough to wait around for that.
If she starts to ask you out, do not think she starts to flirt with you, but because she thinks it is a waste of time to wait for you to be the one who asked.
She likes a COOL guy who sometime act like he is ignoring her, so he has a chance to show him his own confident. She like to guess her man's reaction, but at the same time she likes to has many men wanting her.
She is a daring type who could just do thing differently from other people in her same society. She dare to fight for what she thinks belonged to her. Even she acts confident she mostly feel lonely and alone.
If she breaks up with someone , she won't show any emotion even deep down inside pain and agony. Not for long she will come back to be the cheery and merry person again, because she looks at the world positively and has "Faith" in the word "Love".
She has more men friends than women friends, so do not be a jealous type if you date her. She could be slightly jealous, but she hates jealous guy. She loves "Freedom" so before and after marriage , her freedom has to be the same.
She likes you to trust her, even if she does not trust you anyhow. She likes to be the one who is "Right", so if you argue with her , let her win if it is not a big deal for you in that subject.
She is a straight forward type, so if she does not love you anymore, she will just tell you straight to your face. Her love and relationship are always real, so if she say "It's over" be prepare to leave, she is not testing you.
She is not a vulnerable type, so do not have to worry about her, she will survive by herself. If she is with you when you get sick, she will certainly take care and look after you, even look after you mean "small loan".
Do not have secret with her, she hates it and really can piss her badly. When she is sad , be understanding. When she is happy, be happy with her, she likes that.
You will not get bore with this type of girl. Someone who is close to her will know that deep down beneath that confident and cold hearted person, she is just as fragile as any woman.
She is a fun and talkative person and she likes to tease you. Do not let she talk alone, if you do she will leave. She has many type of jobs because she beliefs what a man can do, I can do. If you want her to work for you, forget it.
When she is in love, she will just leave her job in the day time just to come to see you, but not for long she will go back to work seriously again. Prepare to live and love with a "Working Woman" then you will be OK.
If she mad, find a shelter for the "Hurricane" is here! Her bad temper will last very shortly though. She is not a revenge type and will not think of "pay Back" time. Most people might think of her as "One of a guy", but in fact she is a 100% woman.
She is easily hurt, so be nice with her. If she really loves you, then you are lucky because she is an honest, truthful and will never bored you. Understand that sometimes she will be over confident and sometimes like to have power or act bossy.

::: LEO MAN :::

He likes to comb his hair backward, open his forehead showing a dignify facial expression. His eyes is sparkle, but slightly showing laziness. He walks firmly and slowly like a lion, confident and ego proud.
Outside, you may think he is kind and gentle person, but inside he is a strong and secure person. If he is frighten, he will re-act and respond right away. His words always seem normal but mostly imply "order and demanding". He will not talk fast, or can not talk fast, neither walk fast.
In a crowd or at work he will act normally, but not for long you will see him standing out of the crowd and be a center of attention with his words, or his action. You might think he is a shy guy, but deep down inside he wants to power over his family and his friends. He just waits for that right moment.
Do not take what is his, and do not order him, or else you will see a fierce lion. He respects elderly and senior, but will never bow down and accept like a looser for he will rather die than loose his dignity. He talks bluntly even on an occasion that he should not say such thing. He is a compassionate guy and always look at other people on a bright side. He likes people to listen to him. Even he has such a blunt and bold personality, he could easily reach his goal without making any enemy.
Once disagree with him on something, he can be very up set like a rainy storm on a summer day. It will only last a short time, then he will be back a cheery merry person again. He is a bright and witty guy, and he will not put any efforts on something that he thinks it will not work and waste his energy.
He is a good planner and can well manage his job assigned. When he gives order, he expect them to be carry out exactly. He is the leader type that the followers love. He can give other people advice and solve problems for other people well, except his own mess.
He can be easily hurt by other people especially if you do not trust or respect his ability. You could compliment him sometimes and make this lion be your kitty with no difficulty. He is not a good judge for he listen to many people and tend to belief all sides.
You can hardly see a Leo man with no woman by his side. If you see him alone, he could already have a love one in his heart, or just broken up with one. Because he is very proud, he can change many girl friends. He will do many things for the woman he loves, but loosing his face is not one of them. Leo man cannot live without love , because for him, Love is a ray of Light.
He likes people to rely on him, it's make him feels "in power". He may complaint if he is asked for favor, but deep inside he is happy that you asked him. If you offer to help him , he will refuse you right away.
When he is broke , he can find money still. He is not careful with his way of spending for he has fun with spending money and happy to buy what he likes. He lets other people borrow money from him easily even if he has no money, he will run to his friend to borrow money for you. He likes first class , first quality of everything.
He can work hard like a mad dog, and sometimes can be lazy like a lazy sleepy cat. When he works, he is very serious. When he parties, he can be a party animal. If he ask you out, you will sure have a fun and jolly time.
He will take chance with his love life, so if you know how to handle him, you will win. If he is your love one, it won't be a romance novel. You have to be ready to calm him down when he over reacts to small matters because your cool stability will control and ease his mood.
If you can not handle or understand him, your relationship will be like a demolition zone, a on and off relationship till all your friends tired to hear about your breaking up and making up.
Beauty is always in the eyes of the lion. You have to be dignify to walk with the lion king. Your looks is part of his image and ego and he is very proud about it too.
If you want his attention the first time you meet, you better be astounding attractive. If you have a first conversation with him, you have to show him how much you adore his thinking. He likes to talk and not knowing that he likes to talk about himself.

Happy Birthday.....

Happy Birthday to you... A very happy birthday........

My love will get you home - Christine Glass

If you wander off too far
my love will get you home
If you follow the wrong star
my love will get you home
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone
get back on your feet and think of me
my love will get you home
Boy, my love will get you home

If the bright lights blinds your eyes
my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride
my love will get you home
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone
get back on your feet and think of me
my love will get you home
Boy, my love will get you home.

If you ever feel ashame
my love will get you home
If its only you to blame
my love will get you home
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone
get back on your feet and think of me
my love will get you home
Boy, my love will get you home

i miss you.........

i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you.

Should You Get Engaged?

In the book There Goes the Bride -- Making Up Your Mind, Calling it Off and Moving On, the following suggestions were made. Please consider them carefully:

• If you have mixed feelings about engagement, Don't! You need to be certain. If you get engaged, listen to the feelings, especially numbness or dread or just plain wrongness. These shouldn't be there.

• Engagement is a serious state. Listen to these words: 'Dating is one thing, but signing up for the rest of your life is liable to give anyone a few second thoughts. The challenge is deciding if you're suffering from garden-variety cold feet or what I call, "frozen footsies" -- a much rarer malady.

• Don't feel pressured into engagement or marriage because your biological clock is ticking faster and faster. As one woman said about making a mistake of becoming engaged, 'I was turning thirty and that expiration date stamped on my forehead was flashing so brightly that it blinded me from all the signs.'

• If you find yourself saying 'I love him or her, but...' why would you think of proceeding?

• Remember, a wedding is exciting but it lasts for just one day. Is this the person you want across the breakfast table from you every morning?

By: H. Norm Wright

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In order to marry the right person, you need to avoid marrying the wrong person. That means understanding when a relationship isn't going to work and ending it.
If you need to work hard just to understand the other person or work hard to feel good about the other person, that's tough.

How long would you go with this nice person? How long would you go with this low level of interest? Six months or so if you want to. when you get married, make sure it's a big emotional thing for you. Make sure that you just love this person so much.

The likelihood is, if a relationship is going to get good, it will get good early on because ultimately most relationships get good pretty early and you have a little bit of a tough time holding on to the goodness over the years.
If the relationship takes quite a while before it gets good, it's quite an unusual relationship. Six months is probably long enough to wait.

By : Neil Clark Warren

Believing God For His Best

Believing God for His Best:
How to Experience Contentment
Bill Thrasher
Author

What do you do when you long for another person? Remember that it is not a sin to be tempted (Hebrews 4:15).

First of all, you can thank God for your normal desire. It is natural to long for companionship and intimacy. In order to not let this longing take your thoughts in the wrong direction, bring your thoughts in the light to God and share them with Him.

Reaffirm the truth of His knowledge of your needs and desires and of His loving care for you. Be honest in your conversation with Him. Trust Him to fulfill your desires in His righteous ways and perfect timing (John 7:37-39).

In order not to unduly live in the future, ask Him also to make the most of your singleness for His glory. As Jim Elliot said, "Wherever you are, be all there."

Frustrated.......

"...Love never stops believing, never gives up, it never comes to an end." (Corinthians 13:8)

Love is not always returned...... should i continue to love, or should i give up???
I know what I want, but I can't act according to my feelings and my desires. It might be wrong.... I dare not try....

我很想爱他

我很想爱他

天空下起雨了
他撑的伞 在你的身边陪着
可是我不快乐
因为看见他脸上的笑是很勉强的

我很想爱他
但是眼睛在说谎
隐瞒比较容易吧
免得感情变得复杂

我很想爱他
但是理智在吵架
退出可以解围吗
谁能给我一个好的回答

爱情是模糊的
可怜的是 没有勇气选择
如果再舍不得
这样下去 我们每个人都是受害者

当爱情陷在危险边缘
是否都会伤痕累累
是否都会苦不堪言
爱情教会我们都放不下

::: Live Life :::

If you know you had only one more day to live, what would yoou do???

It never too late to change course. Start anew and write fresh pages of happiness and peace in the book of your life.

Live each hour with cheer, giving it your best. And, Do Not harm others!

Live... as if it were your first day, ... as if it were the last day; the only day of your life.

7 years.....

GENESIS Chapter 29
::: Jacob meets Rachel at the well—He serves Laban seven years for her—Laban gives to Jacob, first Leah, then Rachel in marriage..... :::

11 And Jacob kissed Rachel, and lifted up his voice, and wept.
18 And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
20 And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her.
27 Fulfil her week, and we will give thee this also for the service which thou shalt serve with me yet seven other years.
28 And Jacob did so, and fulfilled her week: and he gave him Rachel his daughter to wife also.

True love suffers long; It is patient, and worth waiting..... I know, and i wish you are the right one. But what if you are not???
We look for love, think we have found it, then find ourselves disillusioned when the feelings go away. How long would the feeling last?? Would it disappear tomorrow morning when u wake up?? Would it gone when you've found someone better??
Not that i don't believe in you, but there's too many uncertainty.....
Disappointments will come. Unfair circumstances will test our faith as well as our love. Yet, I can be disappointed by myself and still love you.
Love isn't possessive and sellfish. I'll keep you in my heart.....

...just let go......

Don't ask me what I want as if you already knew it. You shouldn't have asked because you know that's something you couldn't give.
I've spent a lot of times and efforts; I've been trying real hard. Thing just doesn't work out.
I don't want, and I'm not going to repeat the same mistake again.
When it is the time to let go, just let it go......

My First Class

Yesterday I started my 1st class at Shern En Church. We are so lucky because Pastor Ling is our class teacher! :)
He is a nice, friendly person. Sometimes humorous. But he was a bit strict in the class, because he wants us to be more serious in our study. So that we can learn more and obey to God's word.
Thank God for leading me to the right way! There're many many lessons for me to learn. Always be firm and dedicated!

16 SIGNS YOU LOVE SOMEONE

SIXTEEN:
When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

FIFTEEN:
You read their texts and emails over and over again.

FOURTEEN:
You walk/drive really slow when you're with them.

THIRTEEN:
You feel shy & turn into anyone but yourself whenever they're around.

ELEVEN:
When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.

TEN:
You smile when you hear their voice.

NINE:
When you look at them, you can't see other people around you, you just see him/her.

EIGHT:
You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.

SEVEN:
They're all you think about.

SIX:
You get high just from their scent.

FIVE:
You relize you're always smiling when you're looking at them. Sometimes even laugh out loud.

FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.

THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number twelve was missing

ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & now realised that you really do love that person.

::: This is damn true!!! hehe....

I wish that were you when my handphone ringing; I wish that were you passing by my office;
I wish that were you sitting in front of me while having breakfast; I wish that were you drinking with me;
I wish that were you by my side when I need someone; I wish that were you chatting to me on msn;
I wish that were you..... Anytime, anywhere,.... I wish you always be here!

I was very upset because you always appear offline; I was down when I didn't see your car at the car park; I was sad when your office's light is off; which means you weren't around.....
A real simple sms will brighten up my day. There was one time your sms awaken me from sleep at 4am! I was incredibly happy because you were thinking about me.....

My heart beats fast and slow, up and down when I see you; I'm so nervous when I see you;
I have millions of word to talk to you, but I couldn't open my mouth;
I wanted to listen to your voice but I dare not call you; I didn't even dare to pick up the phone when you called me;
I'm thinking of you when listening to the song; I'm thinking of you while watching TV, dining,...and before i go to sleep.
I wonder what are you doing there now???

I prayed to God that i wanna be with you, but He didn't answer. I know He has prepared something (someone) suit me the best.

Now I know I have to let go. It was tough but I know I can do it. I know I've got nothing to lose but someone who doesn't love me; However you are going to lose someone who really loves you. See, I'm more lucky! :)

Glad to have you as my friend. You are always on my mind! Remember, "any time when you need someone, i'll be heRe with you." :)

I thank God for what I have now, and thank God for what He has given to me, and what He is going to give me in the future.

::: BLESSING :::

‘Bless those prosecute you; bless and do not curse.’ (Romans 12:14)

PROVERBS 6:16-19

There are six things which the LORD hates, Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:

: Haughty eyes,

:: a lying tongue,

::: and hands that shed innocent blood,

:::: a heart that devises wicked plans,

::::: feet that run rapidly to evil,

:::::: false witness who utters lies,

::::::: and one who spreads strife among brothers!!

... if the world hates you....

God has listened and answered to my prayer. He strengthens me, encourages me. I’m not alone because God is with me all the time! What He took away from me is those belong to the world, because I am not of the world but of the truth, of God! One day everything in the world will perish. ‘Do not marvel, my brethren, if the world hates you.’ (John 3:13)

At first I didn’t understand what’s His ‘big plan’ on me. I was confused, frustrated and I was upset. I prayed to Lord, and I’ve spent a lot of times being all alone with my Lord. He knows my weaknesses, so He spoke to me and He consoled me. He opened my eyes to let me see what is valuable and meaningful in life! He removed those destructive.

I feel thankful now because without their discarding, I think I still live in miserable. Now I spend a lot of good times with my family. I bring my lovely niece to church. I share and I learn God’s word with my family and friends. There are many many good things which is sooo meaningful! I was neglected and I hope it wasn’t too late now!

Thank God for not leaving me, but live with me all the time. God is mercy, God is faithful. I confess my sins, and He forgives me. Thank God that I’m not afraid and not worry about those people who gathering against me. God is on my side. In Him I trust, and I will not be afraid. What can a mere human being do to me? (Psalm 57:11)

‘Don’t be envious of evil people, and don’t make friends with them. Causing trouble is all they ever think about; everytime they open their mouth someone is going to be hurt.’ (Proverbs 24:1-2)

‘Don’t be worried on account of the wicked; don’t be jealous of those who do wrong. They will soon disappear like grass that dries up.’ (Psalm 37:1-2)

Now I give myself to the Lord. I work on His plan. Be patient and wait for the Lord to act; don’t be worried about those who prosper or those who succeed in their evil plans. (Psalm 37:7)

‘Don’t give in to worry or anger; it only leads to trouble. Those who trust in the Lord will posses the land, but the wicked will driven out.’ (Psalm 37:8-9)

The Lord has show me the truth and faith, and I have to put my effort to do my part! I walked out from the darkness and I obey God’s rules. I follow what He wants me to do. Be wise, and give serious thought to the way I live, and associate with righteous people.

No matter how bad it is, praise the Lord! Be rejoice when people insult me and prosecute me and tell all kinds of evil lies against me. Be happy and be glad, for a great reward is kept for me in heaven! (Matthew 5:11)

Believe me, I have no prejudice in anyone out there. One day when you believe in God, you’ll understand what am I trying to say here. Those against me, I still name you in my prayer to God. May God forgive you and be with you too. ‘At my first defense no one stood with me, but all forsook me. May it not be charged against them.’ (Timothy 4:16)

‘Don’t be glad when your enemies meet disaster, and don’t rejoice when they stumble.’ (Proverbs 24:17)

‘Bless those prosecute you; bless and do not curse.’ (Romans 12:14)
‘Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.’ (Romans 12:21)

‘Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.’ (Luke 17:3-4)